
But if you can barely find time to read the Bible by yourself, how on earth can you find time to read it with your husband? Here are a few ideas:
* Ideally, you and your husband can pull out the Bible and read a passage together once the kids are in bed.
* Get up early together and read the Bible.
* If you really can't find time to read the Bible together, try the next best thing: Choose a Bible passage to read separately during the day. Then, at night, discuss that passage together. If your husband has a hard time digging out his Bible in the middle of his work day, try emailing or text messaging the passage to him.
* Make sure non-essential things aren't getting in the way of Bible time. If you "don't have time" to read the Bible together, but manage to watch television, movies, sports, or participate in other activities together, think hard about how you're spending your time. (Try laying aside just a slice of that time for God's word; you'll be glad you did.) Even "good" things, like volunteering at church or working for charity, are less important that immersing your marriage in the Word.
* Make it a family event by having the kids read the pre-chosen Bible passage during the day, too. Then discuss it at dinner.
* Or, read the passage aloud when you sit down at the dinner table, then discuss it while you eat.
* Although it's a nice idea to read a daily or weekly devotional together as a couple, it's far more important to actually read the word of God. So if devotionals are getting in the way of your Bible time, reconsider them.
* If you truly cannot find time to read the Bible together, something is wrong. One or both of you are spending too much time away from the other; it's difficult to keep a marriage healthy under these conditions. So while you're trying to re-arrange your life so your marriage is high on your list of priorities, try to at least read the Bible together every weekend.
* When you've finished your Bible reading, be sure to take time to discuss the passage with your spouse. Then end by praying together. Really praying together - taking turns talking to God much more fulfilling and effective.
-Proverbs 31 Woman
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