Bishop TD Jakes continious on the theme of decision making process:
"Who to spend the rest of your lives with"!
It's amazing how very little work, how very little RESEARCH people do when they are “shopping” for a new spouse. Folks spend longer researching the next car they’re going to buy than who they’re going to be spending the rest of their lives with. Many times newly married couples are looking for guidance, and one of the first complaints is that one, or both of them feel deceived by the other. Whatever the reasons, finding out important facts like this AFTER the wedding never does anyone any good.
You would never purchase a vehicle without a thorough inspection. You kick the tires, inspect the upholstery, look under the hood, take it for a test drive. And without fail, you open the trunk. Now if that trunk is full of junk, no matter how nice the rest of that car is you end up looking at it twice, wondering what other flaws are hidden under the paint and rims.
Why do people not look at relationships the same way? And please don’t take this the wrong way, but every single person reading this blog entry has some junk in their trunk that they need to clean out!
In his new book, “Before You Do: Making Great Decisions You Won’t Regret” Bishop TD Jakes deals with this issue in Chapter 3. Nobody can be a good partner, a good friend, a good mate, if they are full of emotional junk. In the webisode I’m sharing with you today, he speaks of this in a comedic manner, but make no mistake - this is a very serious matter! Who you decide to commit to will impact your entire existence. So why wouldn’t you take some time to make sure that your future spouse is ready for the mileage that life will put on him? BEFORE YOU DO, please watch this:
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